Wednesday, September 2, 2015
Yortsayt (Year's Time - Year's Remembrance): From Sadness to Knowing
Yortsayt (Year's Time - Year's Remembrance):
From Sadness to Knowing
I. The Ache
Last year at this time
I sat, looking at you
as you slept
your last sleep.
I told the hospice nurse
that I wished I could
keep you
as you slept
for a few more days.
She said it would
be cruel.
II. The Journey
In this year
I have lived
your various lives
as I thought
and channeled you -
singer, daughter, mom.
I never did bring you
grandchildren.
III. The Seeing
The Yortsayt candle
burns in the dining room.
In its neat, small flame
I see you dancing
on the apartment roof
and I see you playing
the piano
at meetings,
smiling your gracious
charm
across the room.
IV. The Seeing - 2
I see you in bed
as you left,
and I feel you
in and around me
as you travel.
I give my own secular
prayer
to the candle,
in Yiddish,
the language women used
when they were forbidden
from Hebrew:
"Eybiker ru, ober alemol
mit undz."
"Eternal rest,
but always with us."
You are still with me.
This the candle tells.
With me, in me.
V. The Knowing
At Yom Kippur,
the Day of Atonement,
I will apologize
for my mistakes
ask your forgiveness
and wear the brown dress
with autumn trim
that you insist on,
even now.
You always have excellent taste
in clothes.
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